Divorce Mediation Guide

Building a Strong Co-Parenting Framework

Strategies for successful co-parenting after divorce.

By Ryan McLaughlin, Divorce Mediator

Last updated: February 2026

7 Keys to Successful Co-Parenting

1. Put Children First

Make decisions based on what's best for your kids, not on conflict between parents. Children thrive when both parents are involved.

2. Maintain Respectful Communication

Keep conversations focused on parenting. Use email or co-parenting apps for clarity. Avoid criticism and negativity about the other parent.

3. Create Consistent Routines

Establish clear schedules for custody time, visitation, and communication. Consistency helps children feel secure and reduces confusion.

4. Never Disparage the Other Parent

Children benefit from respecting both parents. Avoid criticizing your ex-partner, especially to your children. Model healthy boundaries.

5. Support Your Children's Relationship

Encourage your children to maintain a strong relationship with both parents. This benefits their emotional development and resilience.

6. Flexibility and Understanding

Life happens. Be willing to adjust schedules when needed for your children's benefit. Show grace and cooperation with your co-parent.

7. Seek Professional Support

Family counseling or co-parenting classes can help. Mediation can resolve ongoing conflicts. Support your children through the transition.

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