End Your Divorce in
One 3-Hour Zoom
$795 each

No court battle. No drama. From home.
Most couples finish in one session.

Most 5-Star Google Reviews for MN Divorce Mediators

Only 4 Couples Per Week

Fewer than 200 per year — by design.

This is high-touch, deeply personal mediation.
Every couple receives our full attention and care.

Traditional Divorce vs. Flannel People

Traditional Divorce

  • $15,000+ in attorney fees
  • 6-18 months of court battles
  • Public, stressful hearings
  • High emotional toll

Flannel People

  • Fixed-fee: $795 each
  • One 3-hour private Zoom
  • Private, from your couch
  • Protect kids & co-parenting future
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Your 3-Hour Path to Done

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1

Free 15-Min Call

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Zero pressure.

2

Your 3-Hour Session

Private Zoom.

Flexible scheduling—nights/weekends.

3

You File

Use your agreement.

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Hear From Our Clients

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    "What started as immense fear for me in coming forward turned into one of the most redemptive and empowering processes I have ever experienced. All thanks to Ryan and Flannel People Mediation; I give him my highest recommendation."

    Mica Adesso

  • A woman with long dark hair and fair skin, smiling, in an indoor setting with warm lighting.

    “Ryan shows up with authenticity and leaves his ego at the door - an approach that is refreshing in the mediation and professional world."

    Rachel Schromen

  • Portrait of a young woman with long hair outdoors near water.

    "Felt seen and heard for the first time in this process."

    Courtney Thomas

  • Woman outdoors with trees in the background, smiling with shoulder-length wavy brown hair

    "Ryan is shifting the paradigm of the status quo when it comes to divorce and mediation. After having gone through the painful traditional model, what Ryan offers is leaps and bounds in the “right” direction if you’re looking for another way to peacefully coparent with another. Thank you, Ryan! We’re glad you’re out here doing the work you do."

    SaraAnn Vipond

  • Purple circle with a white letter 'M' in the center.

    "Flannel People Mediation has innovative approaches and ideas to help find solutions to martial struggles be it reconciliation or dissolution through mediation."

    Michelle and Sarah

  • A baby lying on a bed with blankets and stuffed animals.

    "Ryan was approachable and supportive through the whole process. His communication was prompt and accurate and he was available to us whenever we had questions. He was flexible with evening and weekend appointments which is a huge bonus. I highly recommend him and feel overwhelming positive about the outcome of our work with him."

    Stephanie Baldwin

  • A woman with short dark hair smiling outdoors, with trees in the background.

    "Ryan is a very relaxed but knowledgable divorce mediator. Not stuffy or formal at all which helped me feel at ease during the process. After our session I felt informed about the process and clear on how to move forward."

    Alexandra Rose

  • A man in a suit and tie smiling for a formal portrait.

    "Ryan was amazing! Very empathetic, open and thorough! Divorce sucks but it was so helpful to have him walk us through the process!"

    Richard Rose

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How it works:

Divorce Mediation Process

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1. Initial Consultation

Schedule a free virtual consultation to discuss your needs.

2. Mediation Sessions

Participate in guided mediation sessions via secure video conferencing.

3. Agreement

Reach a mutually acceptable agreement, which you’ll then self-file or retain a collaborative attorney to e-file with the local courts.

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FAQs

  • We've found that 3-hrs is the perfect length mediation session. Any longer, and folks lose steam and physical fortitude. Any shorter, and repeated sessions create redundancy, and therefore inefficient use of time.

    The 3-hr session strikes the perfect balance.

  • If we reach an impasse on a particular issue, we may put it off to the side for a moment.

    A moment can be 10 minutes, an hour, or a whole session.

    Sometimes, but certainly not always, momentum elsewhere in divorce discussions creates enough inertia to manifest a global settlement agreement that's agreeable to all.

    Other times, we may dig or inquire more deeply into the impasse. What values underlie the disagreement? What stories are being told?

    This process may just unwind tension enough for an agreement to emerge. That's our hope;)

    1. Let's chat! Use this link and schedule a quick call.

    2. Both spouses agree to process.

    3. Complete participation agreement and e-invoice.

    4. Schedule first session

    5. Intake sent out

    6. Attend first session!

    During the consultation you will receive detailed information about mediation in general and how the Flannel People Mediation process would work in your unique situation.

    Perhaps most importantly, during this consultation you will each have the opportunity to meet me and determine whether or not you feel comfortable with me and my professional services.

    You and your spouse may schedule the consult jointly, which is often beneficial insofar as you both receive the same information at the same time, are able to hear each other’s questions and concerns, and may experience the neutral role of the mediator.

    You will also receive instructions about how to prepare for your work in mediation and how to save time/money.