The Relationship Contract Session - $300 - Flannel People Mediation
The Relationship
Contract Session
You didn't negotiate your marriage - you just said "I do." Now you're fighting about invisible expectations you never discussed.
Map Your Agreement
Design your relationship consciously
The Problem
Most couples fight about things they never actually agreed on.
What You Agreed To
Nothing.
You said "I do" and assumed everything else would work itself out.
What You Both Assumed
Everything.
You each brought invisible expectations from your families, past relationships, and cultural norms.
The result? You're fighting about "contract terms" neither of you ever negotiated.
What This Session Does
In one focused session, we help you build the foundation you skipped.
Surface Unspoken Contracts
Identify the hidden expectations causing your conflicts - the "rules" you didn't know you were breaking.
Identify What's Negotiable
Distinguish between core values (non-negotiable) and preferences (flexible) for both of you.
Build Your Agreement
Create your first explicit relationship agreement - a foundation you can reference and update.
Is This For You?
This is for you if:
- -You keep having the same arguments without resolution
- -You feel like your partner "should just know" what you need
- -You want to prevent bigger problems before they start
- -You're newly married or considering marriage
- -You want a practical framework, not endless therapy
This might not be for you if:
- -You're in active crisis (see our Intensive instead)
- -One partner has already decided to leave
- -There are safety concerns in the relationship
Not sure? Book a free 15-minute call and we'll help you figure out the right fit.
Frequently Asked Questions
Ready to Build Your Foundation?
Stop fighting about invisible expectations. Start designing the relationship you both actually want.
No commitment. Just a conversation to see if this is right for you.
Educational Disclaimer: The information provided on this website is for educational purposes only and is not intended as legal advice, therapeutic advice, or therapy. Flannel People Mediation is a mediation service provider only. We do not provide legal advice or therapeutic services. Please consult with a qualified attorney for legal concerns.