Mediation Guide

Mediation Glossary

Plain-language mediation terms.

A glossary of common mediation words and phrases for people comparing dispute resolution options, preparing for mediation, or trying to understand what a mediator does.

General information only. This glossary is not legal advice, and Flannel People Mediation does not provide legal, financial, tax, insurance, claims-handling, valuation, business, therapeutic, mental health, or parenting advice.

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Mediation

Definition: A private, structured process where a neutral mediator helps people discuss a dispute and explore possible resolution.

Plain language: Mediation is a guided conversation. The mediator helps organize the discussion, but the parties decide whether to agree.

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Mediator

Definition: A neutral person who structures the mediation process and helps parties communicate, clarify issues, and explore possible agreement.

Plain language: The mediator manages the conversation. The mediator does not represent either side or decide the outcome.

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Neutral

Definition: A person who does not represent either party and is responsible for supporting the process rather than advocating for one side.

Plain language: Neutral means the mediator is not anyone's lawyer, advisor, judge, or advocate.

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Caucus

Definition: A separate meeting or conversation between the mediator and one party or group during mediation.

Plain language: In virtual mediation, caucus often means a private virtual room where one side can talk with the mediator separately.

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Joint Session

Definition: A part of mediation where parties meet together with the mediator in the same room or virtual room.

Plain language: A joint session is the everyone-together part of mediation. It may be used for introductions, agenda-setting, discussion, or review of terms.

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Settlement Authority

Definition: The ability to approve, reject, or negotiate settlement terms on behalf of a person, business, insurer, or other party.

Plain language: Mediation works better when the people who can actually say yes are involved or available.

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Facilitative Mediation

Definition: A mediation style where the mediator focuses on process, communication, issue clarity, and party decision-making.

Plain language: In facilitative mediation, the mediator helps people think and talk more clearly without deciding who is right.

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Evaluative Mediation

Definition: A mediation style where a mediator may help parties assess risk, positions, or settlement options, depending on the process and professional boundaries.

Plain language: Evaluative mediation can involve more reality-testing. It still is not the same as a court decision or legal advice from the mediator.

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Online Mediation

Definition: Mediation conducted by video conference or other remote communication tools.

Plain language: Online mediation lets parties, counsel, adjusters, or decision-makers participate from different locations.

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Agreement

Definition: Terms that parties decide to accept, subject to any documentation, signatures, attorney review, filing, or court approval required for the dispute.

Plain language: Talking through terms in mediation is not always the final legal step. Agreements often need documentation or review.

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Memorandum of Understanding

Definition: A written record of terms, understandings, or next steps discussed in mediation, which may or may not be a final legal agreement.

Plain language: An MOU can capture what people discussed. Parties may still need attorney review, formal documents, signatures, or court filing.

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Release

Definition: A document or term that may resolve claims or limit future claims, often used in commercial, insurance, personal injury, and employment-related settlements.

Plain language: A release can be legally important. Parties should get legal advice before signing or relying on release language.

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Parenting Time

Definition: A term often used in family and divorce matters to describe a child's schedule or time with each parent.

Plain language: Mediation can help parents discuss schedules and communication expectations, but legal questions about parenting rights or court requirements should go to an attorney or official court resources.

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Arbitration

Definition: A dispute resolution process where an arbitrator may hear a dispute and make a decision, depending on the parties' agreement and the applicable process.

Plain language: Arbitration is closer to a private decision process. Mediation is a negotiation process where the parties keep control over settlement.

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Litigation

Definition: A court process where legal claims, defenses, procedures, and disputed issues may be handled by a judge, court, or jury.

Plain language: Litigation asks the legal system to handle the dispute. Mediation gives parties a private place to explore settlement.

Educational Disclaimer: This glossary is for general informational purposes only. It is not legal advice. Flannel People Mediation provides mediation services only and does not provide legal, financial, tax, insurance, claims-handling, valuation, business, therapeutic, mental health, or parenting advice.