Divorce Mediation in Minnesota - Collaborative, Efficient, Neutral
Navigate your divorce
with clarity.
Collaborative. Efficient. Neutral.
Skip the courtroom drama. We help couples resolve divorce agreements through guided conversation — giving you control over your future.
0+ five-star reviews

Virtual Mediation
100% Remote
Why Choose Mediation?
Mediation offers a better path forward for couples who want to resolve their divorce cooperatively.
Control
You and your spouse make all the decisions together, rather than having a judge decide for you.
Privacy
Conversations happen privately, not in a public courtroom. Your family matters stay confidential.
Clarity
A neutral mediator helps you understand your options and guides you toward clear, actionable agreements.
Flexibility
Create arrangements that work for your unique family situation, not one-size-fits-all court orders.
How Mediation Works
A structured process that guides you from difficult conversations to clear agreements.
Who This Works For
Mediation is effective for a wide range of situations and participants.
For Couples & Families
- Couples seeking an amicable divorce process
- Parents who want to create workable co-parenting arrangements
- Individuals navigating complex financial situations
- Families wanting to minimize conflict for children's sake
For Legal Professionals
- Family law attorneys seeking referral partners
- Lawyers with clients who may benefit from mediation first
- Professionals looking for collaborative mediation resources
- Court-referred mediation services
What Clients Say
Hear from couples and professionals who have experienced our mediation process.
"Ryan's calmness, casual approach, insights, and cohesiveness throughout the session helped us get through very difficult topics. I was relieved to find someone who spoke to us and for us."
— David H.
"As a family law attorney, I often refer potential clients to Ryan before they engage legal counsel. Some issues can be resolved more effectively through mediation rather than through the courts."
— Padraic Walsh, Attorney
"Ryan is a very relaxed but knowledgeable mediator. Not stuffy or formal at all, which helped me feel at ease during the process. After our session I felt informed and clear on how to move forward."
— Alexandra Rose
About Ryan

Ryan is a trained restorative mediator who has completed 80+ divorce mediations in the last two years.
He started Flannel People Mediation because he saw too many couples spending tens of thousands of dollars on adversarial legal processes when they wanted to work together.
His philosophy: most divorcing couples don't need the adversarial legal process. They need someone who can facilitate a difficult conversation and help them think clearly about their future.
Credentials
- Trained Restorative Mediator
- 80+ Completed Divorce Mediations
- 100% Virtual Mediation Services
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