Divorce Mediation in Minnesota - Collaborative, Efficient, Neutral
Navigate your divorce
with clarity.
Collaborative. Efficient. Neutral.
Skip the courtroom drama. No lawyers necessary. We help couples resolve divorce agreements through guided conversation — giving you control over your future.
0+ five-star reviews
Virtual Mediation
100% Remote
Per Person
Flat fee, no hidden costs
Single Session
Complete agreement
Duration
Virtual session
Most couples reach full agreement on all issues and are ready to self-file
You're not paying for hours — you're paying for a process built to get you to a finished agreement.
We do the prep work before your session so the time together is focused on resolution — not figuring out where to start. Custody, property, support — the goal is to address everything so you can file and be done.
The average litigated divorce costs $15,000–$30,000 per person and takes months. This is a flat rate — $1,295 per person — with no hourly billing and no surprises.
100+ five-star Google reviews from mediation clients.
Why Choose Mediation?
Mediation offers a better path forward for couples who want to resolve their divorce cooperatively.
Control
You and your spouse make all the decisions together, rather than having a judge decide for you.
Privacy
Conversations happen privately, not in a public courtroom. Your family matters stay confidential.
Clarity
A neutral mediator helps you understand your options and guides you toward clear, actionable agreements.
Flexibility
Create arrangements that work for your unique family situation, not one-size-fits-all court orders.
How Mediation Works
A structured process that guides you from difficult conversations to clear agreements.
Who This Works For
Mediation is effective for a wide range of situations and participants.
For Couples & Families
- Couples seeking an amicable divorce process
- Parents who want to create workable co-parenting arrangements
- Individuals navigating complex financial situations
- Families wanting to minimize conflict for children's sake
For Legal Professionals
- Family law attorneys seeking referral partners
- Lawyers with clients who may benefit from mediation first
- Professionals looking for collaborative mediation resources
- Court-referred mediation services
What Clients Say
Hear from couples and professionals who have experienced our mediation process.
"Ryan's calmness, casual approach, insights, and cohesiveness throughout the session helped us get through very difficult topics. I was relieved to find someone who spoke to us and for us."
— David H.
"As a family law attorney, I often refer potential clients to Ryan before they engage legal counsel. Some issues can be resolved more effectively through mediation rather than through the courts."
— Padraic Walsh, Attorney
"Ryan is a very relaxed but knowledgeable mediator. Not stuffy or formal at all, which helped me feel at ease during the process. After our session I felt informed and clear on how to move forward."
— Alexandra Rose
About Ryan
Ryan McLaughlin is a trained mediator with a law degree, a deep grounding in conflict neuroscience, and a single professional conviction: most people are far more capable of resolving their own disputes than the legal system gives them credit for.
He founded Flannel People Mediation because he kept watching couples spend tens of thousands of dollars on adversarial legal processes they didn't need. Most people don't need a courtroom. They need someone who can hold a difficult conversation steady while both people find their way through it.
His Philosophy
Most people walk into conflict thinking something is wrong with them. Or wrong with the other person. Ryan doesn't buy that. When two people are fighting, their brains are doing exactly what brains are supposed to do — protecting them. The problem isn't character. It's chemistry. Change the chemistry in the room, and people who couldn't agree on anything start building something together.
Credentials
- 4.9 Stars — 240+ Google Reviews
- Juris Doctor (JD)
- Trained in Facilitative, Restorative & Transformative Mediation
- Informed by Neuroscience & Conflict Research
- Master of Fine Arts — Creative Writing
Educational Disclaimer: The information provided on this website is for educational purposes only and is not intended as legal advice, therapeutic advice, or therapy. Flannel People Mediation is a mediation service provider only. We do not provide legal advice or therapeutic services. Please consult with a qualified attorney for legal concerns.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Educational Disclaimer: The information provided on this website is for educational purposes only and is not intended as legal advice, therapeutic advice, or therapy. Flannel People Mediation is a mediation service provider only. We do not provide legal advice or therapeutic services. Please consult with a qualified attorney for legal concerns.