Divorce Mediation Guide

Divorce Mediation Process Guide

A step-by-step walkthrough of what to expect during mediation.

By Ryan McLaughlin, Divorce Mediator

Last updated: February 2026

The 5 Stages of Mediation

1

Initial Consultation

Meet with your mediator to discuss your situation, goals, and what to expect. This session establishes ground rules for respectful communication.

2

Information Gathering

Exchange financial information, asset details, and other relevant documents. Both parties provide complete disclosure to ensure fair agreements.

3

Issue Identification

Work together to identify all issues that need resolution: property division, custody, support, and more. Prioritize which topics to address first.

4

Negotiation & Agreement

Collaboratively work through each issue with your mediator as process facilitator. Develop creative solutions that work for your family's unique situation.

5

Finalization

Clients review the mediation agreement, make final adjustments, and file with the court.

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