Self-Service Library

Access proven frameworks, workbooks, and protocols you can use immediately. No consultation needed—just practical tools for real change.

$29.99

Family Repair Intensive Workbook

Political Rifts Edition

  • 10 tools
  • 30+ scripts
  • 90-day reconciliation roadmap
  • For families torn apart by politics

$9.99

Mental Load Negotiation Playbook

Digital Download

  • Stop fighting about who does more
  • Map the mental load
  • Track the hours
  • Calculate the gap
  • Negotiate fair redistribution

$14.99

3 De-Escalation Protocols

For High-Conflict Couples

  • Stop saying "I hate you" in anger
  • Neuroscience-backed protocols
  • Learn to pause before contempt
  • Repair after damage
  • Track patterns with consequences
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